Give it a try. No one is perfect.

The idea of not gossiping can be complicated. What is considered gossip and when is thoughtful discussion necessary or perhaps even required.  To be honest, this is a complicated and nuanced discussion that we hope to delve into in the future. For now though, we simply hope that more thought is put into our discussions. Is this gossip that maliciously spreads rumor or even truth that will unnecessarily impact someone else?

  • Think – Taking a moment to analyze the power and effects of gossip will help to avoid irreparably damaging someone else. 
  • Feel Put yourself in their shoes. Would you want such gossip said about you or someone you love? If not, that is a good signal that it is probably better left unsaid.
  • Mistakes Happen – No one is perfect and there is always room for improvement. Gossip will be a reality of everyone’s life but even if you slip up and spread such negative discussion, you can make up for it by avoiding it next time. 
  • Natural Tendency – We as humans seem to really enjoy talking about others. Why? Hmmm… Regardless of the reason, accepting it as a natural tendency that can be greatly manged is the first step towards improvement. 
  • A More Fulfilled Life – Not spreading gossip will certainly make another person live through less pain but it will also lead to you living a more kind and fulfilled life. Who doesn’t want that?